Are needed:When we are not able to swaddle themselves, or learn to spell.
Terrible:
When you do not let the disco in a stunning dress. Or do not start it at all.
Helpful:
When you can borrow money up to beg for scholarships or cottage for the weekend.
Unbearable:
When the issue of educating the next generation of divergent opinions.
Looking for:
When no one to leave the children and really want to finally relax.
But most often parents - it's a little obsessive inevitable that it ceases to be just ...
Then, when we ourselves become parents.
Ironically, is not it?
Of course, the more annoyed by other people's parents. Especially - if parents are pious. Which do not cease to be worn with the child, almost tying the laces it (and it's thirty-something years old!), To justify his every whim and mood of harmful superiors, heavy afternoon storms on Mars and, eventually, you - " unworthy of such a child the best on earth "... While you're at a hundred percent sure that this" child "is clearly not needed lisping and cackling, and urgent transplant brains. Or at least a little bit of independence. In the brains of persistently torn folk wisdom - "it is difficult to become a parasite without parental care", which only reinforces their own 'good will'.
Own parents are not much better. Surely they will not forget to remind the slightest slip on the part of the non-self-Believing that "they de-warned you ..." And they warned you about absolutely everything. As for the weather and wear. "Daughter, but you would have listened to, bought / wore this sweater would be, and no cold would not be ..." the common cold, of course, would not exist. But how to wear a sweater, linked to your great-grandmother of the 15 th birthday and is not thrown until now only out of respect for this grandma and unnecessary fear of heart attacks because of the horrible ingratitude ... Alas, we explain such basic things fail. It is better not to try to - to save the nerves. And their, and their parents.
Of course, we were warned about the malignancy of technology: "You know, I told a neighbor that these computers and phones IS harmful radiation ...". What about buying a cat, "You have to be allergic to wool, you'll have to quit work, and you know how many there are now drugs?.". About the Believing - of warning about this at all possible to make new predictions of Nostradamus ... and the continuing stream of such warnings - not the worst.
Knowledge about the structure of their parents around the world, including mobile phones and microwave ovens, without a doubt, much deeper and more complete than ours. After all, we all walk under the table, walked, and our parents were already experts in all possible areas. And, more and more of these areas. While explaining that the device microwave a bit more complicated than the Soviet unit calculator ... will not succeed. In the best case - to have offended, and will be hard to ignore the very same microwave. In the worst - we will sample the insidious ingratitude of children, "whom all the best, and they ...". Further ranting, not counting minor variations, are familiar to everyone.
The fact that such touching concern and worry about us by parents, to put it mildly, sometimes annoying, it is hardly necessary to convince someone. But, unfortunately or fortunately - we have parents, when they were aged, make any attempt to correct their bad habits hopeless. One has only to put up with their grumbling, "prophecies" and lack of understanding of the fact that we have not 7 years. Remembering that drives them is nothing like love to us, which means that everything else is not so important to hold because of this "dispute".
But can it is useful to remember another thing?
They say that as a child does not bring up, he still behaves like his parents.
Does this mean that after eleven years of bitching .. and extra care will suffer no longer, we and our children? Maybe it is time to love and give to their parents at least to see what we will become in old age? :)
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