Influence of child's family relationships

Almost all the young couples after a period of first love are experiencing feelings of another climax - the birth of a child. And then, unfortunately, is a recession - it is the views of psychologists. Completely eliminate the crises of family life will not succeed. But here's to stop them, and can and should survive.


Even before the birth of the child discuss future developments. Talk to friends couples, who already have a child. As their relationship has changed with the advent of a new man in their family. Find out what you expect from each other (now, in the future) and what view you have on family life in general. When you are looking for a way to solve conflicts them before they ruin your relationship. Take time to strengthen family relationships. Regularly do with something that brings satisfaction to both. Openly express their wishes. Do not be ashamed to resort to professional help if you notice that you can not solve the problem yourself.

Remember that couples who discuss their problems more easily out of the crisis. That women are more strongly influenced by the climate of the family. If a man understands this, and more time trying to take care of children, to give time to rest his wife, all of them will be good. But change can stabilize the family only when the new situation is good for both.

And remember, even the happiest couples can not do without conflicts. But if the husband and wife are trying to find a solution together, talk to each other about the problems which have accumulated, speak kindly, without a "showdown" and mutual reproaches - they cope with difficult situations. What is more important for men and women of their family and normal relations, the greater the willingness of each to make concessions to each other.